A psychic cord is kind of like an energetic umbilical cord. We often use these cords as a way to communicate energetically with one another. In a healthy, balanced relationship there is a exchange of energy. However when someone has subconscious beliefs about being a sacrifice or being responsible for other people’s emotions, or generally not feeling good enough, the energy ends up flowing more in one direction.
Thanks to the Law Of Attraction if you have beliefs like the ones above, you attract people with similar beliefs into your life, But you also attract people with belief systems that will fit with yours. For example: if you believe that you are responsible for other people’s emotions, you will attract people who don’t want to be responsible for themselves so that you can then take over the job.
It is inevitable that you will then feel exhausted every time you meet with people like this. So what can you do to help yourself?
There are a couple of ways to know if you have psychic cords attaching you to someone. First, you will feel tired after talking to them, but also you will keep on thinking about them without meaning to. They will constantly keep popping into your mind. If this is happening, close your eyes and imagine a cord between the two of you. Then take out some imaginary scissors and cut it. Watch the cord disconnect from you and from the other person. Then ask the Universe to send both of you love.
Sounds simple right? It can be a little more complicated. Without clearing up the subconscious issues related to why this this person is draining you, you may end up being corded again, either by them, or by someone who behaves in a similar way. So you might want to see a healer to help you resolve the underlining issue.
Subconsciously the person you just disconnected from may start to notice their energy source has disappeared. People are a lot more psychic than they realize. So you may find the person contacts you in the days that follow. This can happen even if you haven’t heard from the person in years. They are wanting to reconnect so that they can get some more energy from you.
These people aren’t bad or evil. They just have a few unresolved issues and they are looking for a way to heal themselves. The answers though that they are looking for are within themselves and the more energy they get from others the less likely they are to look inwards. You actually help them by disconnecting them from your aura.
Sometimes people can be psychically corded to partners from their past. Again this may be because they felt responsible for them during the relationship or there may be unresolved emotions relating to relationship. Perhaps they hate their ex or resent them, or they feel guilty about something they did. All of these emotions may result in them feeding their ex energy.
If you read this and someone’s name pops into your head you may want to think about doing the above exercise and taking some time to think about why you are corded to them. Make a conscious decision to forgive the person and yourself.
If you need some help, you can contact me for an appointment or contact a energy healer on psychic website Oranum who will be able to help you cut the cords for you and resolve the issues.