Have you ever tried to move on from an event in your life or from a relationship and found it next to impossible?
There is nothing worse when you’re trying not to think about someone and they keep popping into your head. If you’re a intuitive person you may have even felt like the person was with you in that very moment, like if you closed your eyes and opened them again they would be standing right there.
I've been there, in fact I started to think I was losing my mind.
I wasn't though, and neither are you.
When we go through traumatic or painful life events sometimes pieces of our energy fragment off and stays in that moment, or with the person you were with, in that moment in time. These pieces of energy are called soul fragments. Sometimes they fragment for other reasons as well. People who have distorted belief systems like ‘love is sacrifice’ or ‘I have to give myself away to be loved’ often subconsciously will offer up soul fragments to the person they are with.
The result is that when the relationship ends if the person hasn't got their pieces back it can leave them feeling a bit empty, lost and like there has been a lack of closure on the relationship. It can also bring forth obsessive thoughts about the person they have left.
Sometimes these soul fragments find their way home to us all on their own, in fact you can do a meditation and call your soul fragments back in. Sometimes they don’t come though and when this happens it is because we are getting something out of having our energy stay with the other person, or we are getting something out of holding onto the other person's energy. We are learning from it. While your subconscious may think this is a great thing in reality this can leave you with less energy and focus on your own life.
Sometimes we leave soul fragments in other countries or places which can result in a feeling of homesickness.
Would you rather hold on to the past or move forward with your life with more energy and ease?
If you would like to move forward but you think this is an issue for you, I would recommend booking an appointment with me or another Intuitive Healer that can explore with you the reasons why your unable to let the person or the place go.
What kind of transformation is possible for you?